1. What was your maiden name?
This is a discriminatory question, since the response can indicate
ancestry and simultaneously confirm current or past marital status.
Whether or not to answer is your choice, since there are only
discriminatory questions; not answers. You can avoid answering it by
gently reminding the interviewer that your maiden name really has
nothing to do with your ability to do the job. Or you might cleverly
ask the interviewer, "Is that for security purposes?"
2. Do you plan to have a family?
Because this question is only asked of females, usually those of
childbearing age, it is also discriminatory and you can refuse to
answer. A non-disclosing response, however, might be: "I don't have
any plans."
3. What year did you get your bachelor's degree?
While this question may seem innocuous on its face, the answer can
easily be used to calculate age, since most people go on to college
directly from high school. Or, if your resume does not reference a
degree, it may be a subtle means to determining whether you have
one. You can skirt a direct answer by focusing on a related fact,
such as, "You know, I'm very proud of the fact that I finished my
undergraduate work in only 3 years. ', Or, "Actually, I continued
right on after college into graduate school." Or, if you don't have
a degree, "I enjoyed my engineering courses so much, I've continued
taking them ever since College." Then smile, and let the silence
alert the interviewer that you don't plan to volunteer anything
further.
4. We have a lot of social activities here at
XYZ? Do you and your wife enjoy going to company functions?
This question is a double-edged sword! The interviewer is asking for
confirmation that you are married - and your marital status is
off-limits and asking about how you spend your leisure time. If you
are married, you and your wife very much enjoy company functions,
and the question does not bother you, feel free to answer with a
simple "Yes, very much" and move on. If not, however, you can
respond along these lines: "Oh, how interesting! What kinds of
activities do you provide? . " - and let the interviewer expand on
the subject without revealing your own position.
5. How is your credit rating?
Obviously, your credit rating is not the interviewer's business. But
if you choose, you can simply respond "Fine." If you choose not to
answer, you could turn the question back to the interviewer with
"Why would you ask that?"
19. How would you describe your own management style?
20. What are the most important traits you look for in a
subordinate?
21. How do you like your people to communicate with you? . (Orally,
in writing, informally, in meetings, only when necessary?)